Abode VS Aboyè: Which Community is Right for You?
If you’re here, it means you’re ready to make lasting changes in your home and daily habits. But which community fits where you are right now? Let’s break it down.
$57/month
$12/month
12-week program
Abode is the older Millennial big sister that’s going to transform your life and home in an immersive program.
holistic home organizing strategies
As one member put it, Abode is 1. Accountability, 2. Best Practices, and 3. Community. Abode is the best option for you if you’re:
Ready to go all in with a clear, step-by-step plan and ongoing support
Ready to invest your time and energy into your space
Wanting to be intentional and take your home more seriously
Willing to follow an in-depth, structured, 4-step organizing framework
self-guided community
Aboyé, pronounced ah-boy-yay, means Abode’s foyer and is the younger Gen-Z sister that’s taking notes, but at her own pace.
establish healthier home habits
Start with Aboyé if you’re not quite ready for the full Abode experience. This low-stakes, high-impact community focuses on small, meaningful shifts. Start with Aboyé if you:
Want a slow, self-exploratory declutter community
Want to dip your toe in first and take things slow
Need to solidify your routines before organizing
Want a soft start into home organizing—without the pressure
Abode is like Beyoncé, the evolved mentor, while Aboyé is like Chloe Bailey, the mentee in her prime
To consider which declutter community is right for you, ask yourself:
Do I need structure, accountability, and direct support?
Do I want to start small, explore my Archetype, and move at my own pace?
COMPARISON
Abode VS Aboyé
Current and former Abode members
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"This is more than just, you know, learning to organize and getting a new routine or whatever. "
It's looking at life holistically and what's broken and what can be fixed and how can we fix it from a holistic standpoint. And then how can I keep my feet moving? Like, how can I keep moving? And this is the way by letting that stuff flow out, bless somebody else and keep it moving.
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"My Two Cents for Abode:"
The biggest reason to start is that you are no longer alone with Abode. Before, it could feel like you were in the middle of the ocean with no paddle to get back to shore. Abode gives you a professional organizer, a safe community, and a comprehensive, holistic plan!
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"I've been reflecting on Abode because I’m going through more changes with that second room"
I'm in a place now where I’m really going through a lot of clothes and stuff and it's been amazing to see that space change and how a lot of ways it feels like it's been reflecting on my journey since I came down to Atlanta and like having to work through my shit. As I’ve worked through my shit and gone through my shit, that room has reflected that as well. And I know I have more stuff to work through but I'm excited about that journey so thank you.
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"The ABCs of Abode"
A. It provides accountability and an accountability partner.
B. It provides best practices and lessons learned.
C. It provides camaraderie and a virtual community.
Accountability
Best Practices
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"The range of age, walks of life, and experiences of the community really made me feel comfortable"
to curate my home and implement systems that are fitting to where I am now. Thank you, Rebekah, for setting a tone of warm, gentle transparency on your online platform that carried over to the Abode community
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"Love your transparency!! It’s actually one of my fave things about being in Abode: "
How your share your wisdom in a framework that makes space for vulnerability and transparency. We have to be honest with ourselves about what we want and need our spaces to be and you make that so easy by leading with vulnerability and transparency too! Abode is truly unlike any other program out there!!
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"I’m really enjoying this program and process. I feel lighter and I’ve been doing other healing modalities too but it’s all connected"
I wanted to take a quick moment and share how the progress in my office has completely improved my life! Yesterday it was so simple and quick to get everything I needed for the gym and without any stress of clutter! Still waiting for my pictures to be framed and 1 more piece of furniture and I should be done!
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"Abode has given me a mirror to better help me understand myself, my patterns, and my habits concerning my space."
More than that,it has given me the tangible tools and road map to help me transform old mindsets and patterns. I’m excited to see how my space will continue to transform as my mind transforms! Rebecca has poured her heart and soul into this program and she makes it foolproof! It is literally step by step, room by room. It’s makes the idea of tackling your home less overwhelming.Even if you fall off, it’s so easy to jump back in.
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"I learned so much from Abode. That's why I want to continue to share because I want other people to get the help they need"
I want you to know that your course was needed and is life changing. It’s just one of the hardest things I ever had to face. In going through my stuff I realize I am not dreaming big enough..... holding on to things that no longer serves me. Blocks my blessings of what I actually deserve.
Which One is for You?
Both communities offer tangible action steps with deep inner work designed for long-term transformation. Essentially, the biggest difference is pricing and your mental capacity.
If you want a soft start into home organizing—without the pressure, Aboyé is your spot. It’s a low-stakes, high-impact community focused on small, meaningful shifts.
If you’re ready to go all in with a clear, step-by-step plan and ongoing professional support, Abode is where you need to be. It offers a structured roadmap, accountability, and a proven framework to transform your home.